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Leonora Obed's avatar

Our tribalism is entrenched by our collective values of hiya and palikisama. We are more concerned with approval appearances and when we call out bad behavior we are ostracized. Charity begins at home but if children are discouraged from questioning and exploring new realms of ideas and existence then that negative tipple effect produces a people who are weak, compliant and lacking in the curiosity and critical skills that are the foundation of exploration, innovation and nation building. I am Fil-Am

and what I’ve noticed is that when Filipinos have their parade in NYC they invite only their friends or certain wools of prestige (doctors, wealthy people) to participate. This gatekeeping of the culture is but another insidious example of our toxic tribalism. Contrast this with the Irish and Puerto Rican parades, which are so large as to require traffic control and extensive media coverage. Our insularity against each other keeps us small, and others can sense it, which is why we don’t capture the zeitgeist. Even after decades of living in the US many Filipinos cannot embrace the democratic ideals of equality, we are still stuck in our arrogant ways and gatekeepers the culture and then we bemoan the “tragedy” of our children not speaking the dialect and being apathetic to their native culture.

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Your account of the “genetic” nature of our extreme insularity and clannishness is fascinating and logical. I want to underscore the power of language in achieving unity and a cohesive national identity and culture. Look at Italy—before it was united it was a collection of various kingdoms and regions but one important factor—as emphasized by composer-patriot Giuseppe Verdi—was the Italian language. To this day Italian culture is bound by the beauty and richness of its language. If we are to achieve a Filipino culture and identity that unites our diverse peoples—and fights the deadlock of extreme insularity and division/-then we need to communicate in a unanimously agreed language that will also serve us in the global stage. Tagalog is not the solution. (I come from a fiercely proud Tagalog family from Batangas, so I love this language) . The problem with establishing Tagalog as the national language is that if exacerbates the very problem we are eliminating-regionalism. Non-Tagalog regions resent the supremacy of the Manila-centric dialect. Dr. Jose Rizal had once proposed Castellano/Spanish as the Official Language, and I agree with him. Even the Spanish ambassador will tell you that the Philippines’ sociology economic growth will rise if we embrace the mother tongue. Take a look at South America. The continent is diverse, with lots of regional dialects, but these diverse peoples are proud to be Latinos, and what unites them is the Spanish language. It IS possible for us to preserve our linguistic and cultural diversity while also conducting our political and corporate work within a rich and powerful language that can compete on the global stage. Let’s be trilingual (Spanish/English+our regional dialect) and we can become a formidable nation.

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